Social Media Marketing and Its Influence on Children in India
Social media is changing the way children discover products, form preferences and understand what is considered popular. But where does entertainment end and advertising begin?
A child watches a YouTube video before going to school. Later, they scroll through Instagram or watch short videos. They see their favourite creator wearing a particular pair of shoes, using a new smartphone, eating a particular snack or talking about a new game.
A few minutes later, the child may say something very familiar to parents:
"I want that too."
It may sound like an ordinary request. But behind that request could be a sophisticated marketing system involving brands, influencers, algorithms and carefully designed content.
This is why the relationship between social media marketing and children in India deserves much more attention.
India's Children Are Growing Up Online
Digital technology has become an important part of childhood and adolescence in India.
According to UNICEF India's recent guidance on children's online safety, data from ASER 2024 shows that 89.1% of adolescents aged 14–16 reported having a smartphone at home. Of these adolescents, 76% primarily used smartphones for social media, compared with 57% who primarily used them for educational purposes. UNICEF also reported that 40% of young people surveyed through its 2024 U-Report spent more than four hours online each day.
These figures do not mean that social media is necessarily harmful.
The internet can give children access to educational material, creativity, entertainment and communities that may not otherwise be available to them. UNICEF itself highlights the opportunities that digital technology can provide while also recognising the risks children can face online.
The issue is that social media is also a marketplace.
And children are increasingly experiencing that marketplace while they are still developing their ability to recognise advertising and understand persuasion.
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Advertising Doesn't Always Look Like Advertising Anymore
Think about a traditional television advertisement.
A programme stops.
An advertisement appears.
The advertisement ends.
The programme starts again.
Most people understand the difference.
Social media works differently.
A child might watch a creator talking about their morning routine. During the video, the creator uses a particular skincare product, wears a particular brand of clothing or drinks a particular beverage.
The content feels personal.
It feels like entertainment.
It may even feel like a conversation with a friend.
But if the creator has a commercial relationship with the brand, the content may also be advertising.
This is one of the biggest changes brought by social media marketing.
Advertising has become part of the content itself.
The Advertising Standards Council of India (ASCI) recognises this problem. Its influencer marketing guidance states that the boundaries between content and paid promotions can become blurred and requires relevant commercial relationships to be disclosed clearly.
For adults, recognising sponsored content can already be difficult.
For younger audiences, it can be even more complicated.
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Why Influencers Matter So Much
Children and teenagers often follow influencers because they find them entertaining, relatable or interesting.
Over time, a sense of familiarity can develop.
A child may watch the same creator every day.
They may know the creator's favourite games, clothes, food and hobbies.
When that creator recommends a product, it doesn't necessarily feel like a company trying to sell something.
It can feel like a trusted person making a recommendation.
This is exactly what makes influencer marketing so powerful.
ASCI defines an influencer as someone who has access to an audience and can affect that audience's purchasing decisions or opinions because of their authority, knowledge, position or relationship with their followers.
Imagine a child watching their favourite creator repeatedly use a particular pair of headphones.
At first, the child may not care.
After seeing them several times, the product becomes familiar.
Then the child starts thinking the headphones look good.
Eventually, the child asks their parents for them.
There was no traditional advertisement saying:
"Buy these headphones."
The recommendation happened through a relationship.
Children Don't Always Have Their Own Money — But They Have Influence
There is another important part of this story.
Children may not have significant purchasing power themselves, but they can influence household spending.
A child sees something online.
They want it.
They ask their parents.
They explain why they need it.
They might show their parents videos about the product.
They might say that their friends have it.
Eventually, the parents may decide to buy it.
This creates an interesting relationship between social media marketing, children and family purchasing decisions.
The child becomes the influencer.
The parent becomes the purchaser.
And the brand benefits from both.
This is particularly relevant in India, where family decision-making plays an important role in many areas of consumption.
Social Media Can Shape Preferences Before Purchases Happen
The influence of social media marketing is not limited to whether a child buys a particular product.
Repeated exposure can shape what children consider desirable.
It can influence:
clothing preferences;
food choices;
entertainment preferences;
technology choices;
perceptions of popularity;
ideas about beauty;
attitudes towards brands;
perceptions of wealth and success.
For example, a child may repeatedly see popular creators using expensive smartphones.
Eventually, the smartphone may become more than a piece of technology.
It can become associated with status.
The same thing can happen with clothing, shoes, gaming equipment, restaurants and other products.
Marketing is no longer simply selling a product.
Sometimes, it is selling an identity.
The Algorithm Knows What Holds Attention
There is another major difference between social media and traditional advertising:
Personalisation.
Social media platforms can recommend content based on how users interact with the platform.
A child watches one video.
Then another similar video appears.
The child watches that too.
More similar content follows.
Over time, the child may see an increasingly concentrated stream of content around a particular interest.
This can create a cycle:
Interest → Engagement → Recommendation → More exposure → Stronger interest
From a marketer's perspective, this is incredibly valuable.
But from a parent's perspective, it raises a difficult question:
How much of a child's preference is independently developed, and how much has been reinforced by the digital environment around them?
That is a question that deserves much more research, particularly in the Indian context.
The Pressure to Have the "Right" Lifestyle
Social media marketing can also influence how children see themselves.
Social media is full of carefully selected images.
People appear happier.
Homes look better.
Clothes look more fashionable.
Holidays look more exciting.
Bodies look more perfect.
Lives look more successful.
Children and teenagers are still developing their identities, so constant exposure to idealised lifestyles can affect what they believe is normal or desirable.
Brands can become part of that process.
A product can be presented as a shortcut to a particular identity:
Use this and look fashionable.
Buy this and fit in.
Wear this and become more confident.
Own this and appear successful.
The product itself may not be the real message.
The deeper message is often about who the consumer could become.
Food Marketing Is Another Concern
Food is another area where social media marketing can have a strong influence.
Children can encounter food brands through influencers, short-form videos, gaming content and lifestyle posts.
A snack may appear as part of an entertaining video rather than a conventional advertisement.
A restaurant may appear in a creator's vlog.
A beverage may appear naturally on someone's desk.
The commercial message becomes part of everyday entertainment.
ASCI's advertising code specifically includes provisions concerning advertisements aimed at children and food and beverage advertising, including the need not to undermine healthy lifestyles or parental care and guidance around food choices.
The challenge is that children may not always recognise when an entertaining piece of content also has a commercial purpose.
What Is India Doing About It?
India already has advertising standards designed to protect consumers.
ASCI's code states that advertisements directed towards children should not contain material that could cause physical, mental or moral harm or exploit children's vulnerability.
ASCI also has specific guidelines for influencer advertising.
Where an influencer has a material connection with a brand, the relationship should be disclosed using clear labels such as "Ad", "Sponsored", "Collaboration", "Partnership", "Free gift" or "Affiliate", depending on the circumstances. The disclosure is expected to be prominent and understandable to consumers.
These are important protections.
But the digital environment keeps changing.
Marketing can now involve:
influencers;
sponsored videos;
product placements;
affiliate marketing;
gaming content;
short-form videos;
personalised recommendations;
virtual influencers;
branded entertainment.
As these techniques become more sophisticated, distinguishing advertising from ordinary content may become increasingly difficult.
Should Parents Ban Social Media?
Probably not.
A complete ban is unlikely to be a realistic solution.
Social media can be useful.
Children can discover educational content, learn new skills, explore their creativity and communicate with other people.
The more realistic goal should be digital and advertising literacy.
Children need to learn how social media works.
They should understand that:
not everything they see online is spontaneous;
influencers may have commercial relationships with brands;
recommendations can be influenced by algorithms;
photographs and videos can be edited;
popularity does not necessarily mean quality;
buying a product does not guarantee happiness or social acceptance.
The goal should be to create informed young digital consumers, rather than simply trying to keep children away from technology.
What Can Parents Do?
Parents do not need to know every new social media trend.
Sometimes, simple conversations can make a big difference.
Instead of saying:
"Don't believe everything you see online."
parents can ask:
"Why do you think this person is recommending this product?"
"Do you think the company paid them?"
"Would you still want this product if you had never seen it on social media?"
"Do you think this video is entertainment, advertising, or both?"
These questions encourage children to think rather than simply obey.
And that may be one of the most useful skills parents can give them.
Schools Have a Role Too
Digital literacy should not be limited to parents.
Schools can also help children understand the commercial side of social media.
Students could be taught how to identify:
sponsored content;
influencer marketing;
product placement;
affiliate marketing;
misleading claims;
edited images;
algorithmic recommendations;
persuasive advertising techniques.
The aim would not be to make children suspicious of every brand.
It would simply help them understand why certain content appears in front of them and what someone wants them to do after seeing it.
UNICEF India's recent guidance similarly highlights the importance of teaching children cyber safety, appropriate technology and internet use, and helping them understand the effects of screens and handheld devices.
Social Media Isn't the Enemy
It is important to avoid blaming social media for everything.
Technology itself is not the problem.
Marketing itself is not the problem either.
Businesses need to communicate with consumers, creators need opportunities to earn income and platforms need sustainable business models.
The real issue is the vulnerability of the audience.
There is a difference between marketing to an adult who understands that a creator is being paid to promote a product and marketing to a child who may interpret that same promotion as a genuine recommendation from someone they trust.
That difference creates an ethical responsibility.
Brands have a responsibility.
Influencers have a responsibility.
Social media platforms have a responsibility.
Parents and schools have a responsibility.
And policymakers have a responsibility.
The Question We Should Be Asking
The conversation around children and social media often focuses on screen time.
But perhaps we should be asking a different question.
Instead of only asking:
"How many hours is my child spending online?"
we should also ask:
"What is my child being exposed to during those hours?"
Two children could spend the same amount of time online and have completely different experiences.
One might spend the time learning science, watching educational videos and talking with friends.
Another might spend the same amount of time watching highly commercialised content designed to encourage consumption.
The number of hours alone does not tell us the whole story.
What children see matters.
The Future of Children and Digital Marketing in India
India's digital economy is likely to continue expanding.
Influencer marketing will continue to evolve.
Artificial intelligence will make content more personalised.
Algorithms will become more sophisticated.
Brands will find new ways to communicate with consumers.
And children will grow up in the middle of all of it.
That makes this conversation increasingly important.
We should not try to create a world where children never encounter advertising.
Instead, we should create a world where children can recognise it.
They should be able to enjoy a video while understanding that it may also contain a commercial message.
They should be able to follow an influencer without assuming every recommendation is completely independent.
They should be able to want a product without believing that owning it will automatically make them happier, more popular or more successful.
Final Thoughts
Social media has changed childhood in ways that previous generations could not have imagined.
Today, entertainment, friendship, information and advertising can all exist on the same screen.
Sometimes, they can even exist inside the same piece of content.
That is why the influence of social media marketing on children in India deserves serious attention.
The solution is not necessarily to take technology away from children.
It is to give children the knowledge to understand the technology around them.
Because the most important question may not be:
"What is social media selling to our children?"
It may be:
"What is social media teaching our children to want — and who benefits from those wants?"
As India's digital generation grows up, that is a conversation worth having.
What do you think?
Do you think social media marketing has too much influence on children in India?
Should parents restrict children's access to social media, or should we focus more on teaching children how advertising and algorithms work?
Share your thoughts in the comments.
